It happens every year. January rolls around, and suddenly your social media feeds are overflowing with articles about “must-have” wedding trends for the year ahead. From living aisles to patterned china, these posts make it seem like you need to tick all the trendy boxes to have a wedding worth remembering. But here’s the thing—most of these trends are fleeting, impractical, and expensive.
So, let’s unpack why wedding trends are often more trouble than they’re worth, how to avoid the traps, and highlight some of the most questionable trends we’ve seen over the past five years.
Why January is Trend list Overload
The start of a new year is prime time for trend-pushers. Wedding blogs, Pinterest boards, and Instagram influencers flood your feed with predictions for the “hottest” wedding ideas. It’s all about setting the tone for the year ahead—and, let’s be honest, selling products and services.
But before you get swept up in it all, remember that these trends are often driven by what photographs well for Insta, not what actually works for your wedding day. The result? Couples chasing Instagram-worthy moments that don’t always fit their personalities, budgets, or practical needs.
How to Avoid Falling for Trend Traps
1. Step Away from the Screen
When you’re overwhelmed with ideas, it’s easy to lose sight of what you actually like. Take a break from scrolling socials and talk with your partner about what’s important to both of you. This helps you refocus on what your wedding should look like—not someone else’s ideas.
2. Think Long-Term
Trends are, by definition, temporary. Before jumping on the bandwagon, ask yourself: will I love this choice in 10 years? If the answer is no, move on.
3. Stick to Your Budget
Many trends come with eye-watering price tags. Whether it’s elaborate floral installations or designer bridesmaid dresses, don’t let trendy extras stretch your budget. A great wedding is about meaningful experiences, not pricey props.
4. Embrace Practicality
Trends often prioritise aesthetics over function. Before adopting a trend, think about whether it will work for your venue, weather, and guests. Chic outdoor dining might look stunning in summer on the hot wedding blog, but if it’s windy or raining, it’ll be a disaster.
Wedding Trends That Didn’t Translate
Over the past five years, we’ve seen some wedding trends that felt more like fads than thoughtful touches. Here are a few of the worst offenders:
1. Doughnut Walls
Once hailed as a quirky, fun dessert option, doughnut walls quickly became overdone. Sure, they look cute in photos, but they’re awkward to eat from and are often overlooked by guests who’d rather tuck into the cake.
Now, let’s be real—I love doughnuts as much as Homer Simpson, but there’s a time and place. Doughnuts that have been hanging on pegs for hours in the heat is not necessarily the best way to enjoy a doughnut (Mmmmmmm, doughnuts).
2. Over-the-Top Neon Signs
A glowing “Happily Ever After” sign might seem like a cool idea, but how often will you use it again after the wedding? Not to mention, they’re really expensive. Best to just enjoy them in cool bars instead.
3. Excessive Pampas Grass
Pampas grass had a moment in boho weddings, but the mess it leaves behind is no joke. Plus, it can quickly overwhelm a space, turning your elegant ceremony into something resembling a garden centre.
4. Matching Silk Pyjamas
Brides and bridesmaids in coordinated satin pyjamas might seem cute for photos, but these sets can be expensive—and let’s face it, how often will you wear them again?
5. Choreographed TikTok Dances
What started as a fun surprise has now become an expectation for some couples. The result? Awkward performances that often feel more like a show for the guests than an authentic moment of celebration.
What Actually Matters
While trends can inspire, they shouldn’t dictate your wedding. The most memorable weddings aren’t the ones with the most Instagrammable moments—they’re the ones full of personal touches and genuine emotion.
Here’s what truly stands the test of time:
Personalisation
From handwritten vows to a first dance song that means something to you, personal elements always shine brighter than trendy add-ons.
Timeless Décor
Opt for décor that feels classic and elegant rather than flashy. Think greenery, candles, and understated florals.
Great Atmosphere:
At the end of the day, your guests won’t remember your doughnut wall, but they’ll remember how much fun they had celebrating with you.
January’s Resolution: Ditch the Trends
This January, as your feed fills up with “must-have” wedding trends, take a deep breath and remember: you don’t have to follow them. Your wedding isn’t about ticking off a checklist of trendy ideas; it’s about celebrating your love in a way that feels authentic to you.
Focus on what matters, avoid the pressure, and make choices that will still make you smile when you look back on your wedding photos in years to come.
